Setting Goals
Seven steps to achieving your goals
Adapted from "Goal Setting. Powerful written goals in 7 easy steps" by Gene Donahue
Many of us dream about where we want to go, but we don't have a map on how we're going to get there. What is a map? In essence, the written word. What is the difference between a dream and a goal? Once again, the written word. Goal setting is more than simply scribbling down some ideas on a piece of paper. Goals need to be complete and focused, much like a road map. Following the 7 steps noted below will make goal setting a breeze!
Step 1: Make sure the goal you are working for is something you really want, not just something that sounds good.
Step 2: A goal cannot contradict any of your other goals.
Step 3: Develop goals in the 6 areas of life…
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Family & Home
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Social & Cultural
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Spiritual & Ethical
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Physical & Health
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Finance & Career
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Mental & Educational
Step 4: Write your goal in the positive instead of the negative
Step 5: Write your goal out in complete detail
Step 6: Make sure your goal is set high enough
Step 7: Write down your goals and review them frequently
Goals should be positive, precise, prioritized, and written down. Every time you make a decision ask yourself "Does this take me closer to or farther away from my goal?
Ten myths and realities of goal setting
| Myth #1 | Goal setting is not that important. |
| Reality | Success requires goals - end of story! Success does not happen by accident. |
| Myth #2 | Goal setting is difficult and takes too much time. |
| Reality | Performance is accelerated by time invested in preparation and strategy. |
| Myth #3 | New Years is the best time to set goals. |
| Reality | There's no better time than now. Goal setting is not about timing, it's about decision. |
| Myth #4 | Goals don't need to be written - Keep them in your head. |
| Reality | Written goals clarify thinking, objectify their potential, and reinforce commitment. Once out of site, goals soon become out of mind! |
| Myth #5 | Long-term planning is a waste of time. |
| Reality | Your future deserves consideration. It will someday be your present reality. |
| Myth #6 | A good plan is all you need to be successful. |
| Reality | Success is active, not passive. All plans require action. Preparation is no substitute for action. |
| Myth #7 | The best way to acheive a goal is just to begin. |
| Reality | Action without planning is the root cause of most failure. |
| Myth #8 | All it takes is hard work to acheive your goals. |
| Reality | Hard work is important, but working smart is mandatory. |
| Myth #9 | I can do it on my own. I don't need help. |
| Reality | Success requires cooperation. Nobody does it alone. |
| Myth #10 | Goals only need to be reviewed once a year. |
| Reality | Everything changes. Your goals must keep shaping, shifting and flexing to fit these fast-changing times. Adopt a regular and consistent review process. |
"The measure of success is not whether you have a tough problem to deal with,
but whether it's the same problem you had last year."
- John Foster Dulles
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